Once it was brave to stand up on a small platform in Hyde Park, London – “Speakers Corner” where ordinary people could get their frustration sandwiched pain blown out of the body to either disgust or happiness of others.
Today, there are other platforms for frustration and tendencies – Internet, debates, demonstrations and the media’s open and direct reports of personal and professional human data.
Privacy or movement away from the public can still be done regardless of the motives or feelings behind this way of life. Many have certainly tried to stay in hiding or in extreme cases blur own existence and the reasons for this are many.
I’ve been fortunate to meet many different people in my life and have noticed many variations in attitudes, lifestyles and the limits of any can or must be transparency and self-realization. The most extreme people I’ve met in my life are psychopaths or illiterate people using only an innate instinct to communicate with the outside world and in some cases, meeting with such people, unfortunately, be extremely dangerous whether it’s violence or psychological terror that may be an agenda at the moment of a short circuit.
Except in extreme situations it is of course every person’s right to choose how their own lives may be divided into the personal and professional life. Present trends, however, shows a greater openness and blending of the personal and professional, where many have probably learned, that openness is better than the enclosed questions and facts, which are constantly lurking in the unconscious with no respect for our conscious thinking about the many emotions or attitudes we have decided in the conscious moments. Naturally, we can train our conscious brain in much, but if the subconscious does not accept, this card will end and arrive as a bolt from a clear sky.
People who have resources enough to work on a personal and professional level every day know how much it requires to meet own requirements and ambitions – It can be likened to a marathon race in the energy consumed each day, why blood clots, heart attack and other acute diseases, that may easily occur without warning.
Another but vulnerable group is the people who pretend to be anything other than what they are – a double life in hidden and deceitful frame, which at a time in life can become a boomerang of large dimensions if the conscience is otherwise intact. The easiest way to either fame, wealth and bathe in the spotlight and glamour are only the few cropped – but otherwise its hard work with many obstacles on the road to dreams uranium blessed mountaintop.
The world has long been added corruption diverse maneuver – whereever we want to get on the transparency of private and professional relationships be-all and end in the future. With the right tools in hand, most people can learn what is important for them in openness bright lights and others can then approve or the opposite depending on the famous chemical and invisible hate / love relationship.
Facebook and other portals have been a good “trial stay” for many, precisely the places where people meet each behind their own screen, it will always give a good picture of man in themselves and others. Shades are many and dangerous for the group of Internet users who do not know the reality of what I would call reality in the open space, where people meet in everyday life with a few or many eyes and ears perhaps weighing and measuring as always ……. . But who does not. It has always been a part of life – either burdensome or merry-making, depending on the temperament and insight.
Are you already a public figure – Remain open, but try to limit your life to what you can bear to hear again. Everything is relative and remember to listen to your body – it never lies, and will gladly help you along the way with positive reminders of your human abilities and limitations when you try out new areas and breakthroughs in life’s many facets.
I have been very boundaries with lots of adventure in my blood, but remember that large steps may risk being “expensive” in both human and economic terms. Survival alone is no virtue, but even deserved foolhardiness.
Life is a difficult art form and who says that it must be like this ending up with our conscious and often brain washed cells, which will become our own worst enemy. Let the tones play from the body’s soul no matter what the ambient manifold advice and guidance is trying to tell you. The notes from the environment can easily be false and uncomfortable for the soul’s peace and quietness – maybe it disappears after the motto “enough is enough”…. and you will be left in no man’s land.
Kurt Lykke Lindved
Culture and Development, UN